When you first meet somebody, you may not want to come straight out and talk about your sexual tastes. But, you should actually try to talk about sex. When you trust your partner and talk about sex, you will find that it brings you closer together. It can be tempting to just jump into bed with each other, but would it not be good to learn how to talk about sex? I date gents at London escorts who are in their 50's and never talked about sex with their partners. It is not really healthy and you should appreciate that good sex is important to both of you.
One of the gents that I see a lot of at outcall escorts, joined me for dinner out in a top London restaurant the other evening. He would normally come around to see me at London escorts a couple of times per week, but he must had been busy at work as I had not seen him for a while. When he came and sat down at the table, he seemed a little bit flustered. He explained that he had not been to see me at London escorts as he had been busy with putting some new deals together at the company he owned. Then he leaned a little bit closer, and whispered that his wife had bought them a vibrator.
I had to smile, it did really sound like he was surprised. Apparently it turned out that he saw his wife purchase of a vibrator as a bit of a shock. He was not happy about it all, and thought he was the one failing his wife. I explained that most girls enjoyed vibrator, and the girls I worked with at London escorts all had vibrators. He seemed a bit surprised, but I said we all enjoyed experiencing orgasms. Owning a vibrator may not be such a big deal to London escorts, but my gent thought it was something a bit strange.
My gent was clearly not happy, and I asked him what was really wrong. First of all, he said that it was such a surprise. Also, he was anxious not to hurt is wife, and not so keen to play with the vibrator in case it hurt her. To be honest, I felt a bit silly sitting there explaining to him about vibrators, and why so many London escorts liked them. Sure, it is nice with good vibrations, but there is more to it than that. Women these days liked to be pleased, and enjoy satisfaction in bed. The problem comes when women tell men what they expect of them.
Getting things right in bed with your new partner is very important, and this is why you should talk about sex. All of the boyfriends I have had outside of London escorts, have been told what I like in bed. I don't think that I am kinky or anything, but connecting with your partner sexually can be important. It is just hard to get into he habit. I normally try to make the entire experience a little bit sensual, but even that is hard at time. Talking to men about the so called “technical” side of sex can often trigger and fight and flight response. They may brag about the conquests to their friends, but when women actually start talking about pleasure, it is clear that this is a craft that many men still need to learn about.